Evenings are for dates.

Not for (re)writing stiff dating messages.

Get high-quality AI openers and responses in 10 seconds

We'll send one launch update & one reminder. That's it.
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Modern dating is not normal.

"Hi, how are you?" works in-person, but is too generic online.

Creative, personalized messages work, but are exhausting and awkward to craft.

How can you stand out without burning yourself out?

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Normal messages that work. In 10 seconds.

Upload a screenshot, pick an option, send with confidence.

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10 seconds, not 10 revisions

Solid message options faster than you can overthink them

Stand out in a good way

Creative, tailored, and different... without weird GPT grammar

Your choice of tone

Casual, flirty, deep, or direct

No account required

You have better things to do than create another password

How it works

From screenshot to 'Sent' in under a minute.

Upload a screenshot
01

Upload a screenshot

Dating app profiles, text messages, and DMs all work.

Pick the message you like
02

Pick the message you like

Choose from four different options, each tailored to the screenshot.

Send in seconds
03

Send in seconds

Copy, switch apps, paste, send.

Built by one of your friends.

My friends have spent MANY hours on dating apps. They lost themselves in the swipe FOMO and messaging perfectionism. Crafting the "perfect" openers or replies would only take "a couple more minutes."

But two minutes turned into 45 and we'd end up missing the opening band at a concert or an after-work happy hour. Plus, they'd get ghosted anyway because their messages sounded weird or they took too long to reply. That's no good for anyone.

I built Roxanne for my friends. They use it to help them get out of their own heads and focus on getting a date scheduled.

Now they spend zero time overthinking and more time hanging out with me dating... which was the point of all this in the first place, right?

Jesse and bff on a roller coaster at Six Flags in 2008, having fun with face paint and making silly faces.
Above: Jesse (L) and bff (R) in 2008, not crafting messages to people they don't know yet.
Why Roxanne?

Designed to help grown-ups go on dates.

It’s totally normal to freeze up when you might like someone. You want to say the right thing — not come on too strong, not sound boring, just… land it.

Rizz tools get you ghosted with “viral” pickup lines. ChatGPT is generic and slow.

Roxanne is different: quick, natural messages that move conversations forward. You WILL get unstuck... and maybe decide you like this part, too.

  • No pick-up lines - ever
  • Use as-is or for inspiration
  • Works with any screenshot
  • Privacy-first: no accounts or stored data
  • Varied tones to fit the vibe
  • Removes pressure, not personality
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What our beta testers say

They're already saving time and getting better results.

"I was spending way too much time trying to not sound like a weirdo. The matches I get are responding a lot more AND I'm spending a ton less time writing them."

Mike, 34

Mike, 34

Marketing Manager

"It's a lifesaver. I'm good at talking but bad at writing and Roxanne helps a ton."

Andrew, 53

Andrew, 53

General Contractor

"I was using ChatGPT to help me reply faster, but re-prompting nixed that benefit. This produced messages that I'd actually send. Didn't even edit the last few."

David, 41

David, 41

Engineer

Ready for dating to be about dates again?

Be the first to know when Roxanne launches.

Early access users will receive steep discounts and zero spam.