Evenings are for dates.

Not for (re)writing stiff dating messages.

Get high-quality AI openers and responses in 10 seconds

We'll send one launch update & one reminder. That's it.
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Modern dating is not normal.

"Hi, how are you?" works in-person, but is too generic online.

Creative, personalized messages work, but are exhausting and awkward to craft.

How can you stand out without burning yourself out?

Brad Pitt and Jim Carey meme

Normal messages that work. In 10 seconds.

Upload a screenshot, pick an option, send with confidence.

People connecting meaningfully

10 seconds, not 10 revisions

Solid message options faster than you can overthink them

Stand out in a good way

Creative, tailored, and different... without weird GPT grammar

Your choice of tone

Casual, flirty, deep, or direct

No account required

You have better things to do than create another password

How it works

From screenshot to 'Sent' in under a minute.

Upload a screenshot
01

Upload a screenshot

Dating app profiles, text messages, and DMs all work.

Pick the message you like
02

Pick the message you like

Choose from four different options, each tailored to the screenshot.

Send in seconds
03

Send in seconds

Copy, switch apps, paste, send.

Built by one of your friends.

My awesome friends have spent MANY hours on dating apps. They tried to craft the "perfect" openers or replies, only to get ghosted because they sounded awkward or took forever to reply.

They lost themselves in dating app FOMO and started skipping out on the things that make them fantastic: their hobbies, friends, and adventures. That's no good for anyone.

I built Roxanne for my friends. They use it for openers and replies to get a date. Then they're on their own to be their awesome selves.

Now they spend zero time overthinking and more time dating... which was the point of all this in the first place, right?

Jesse and bff on a roller coaster at Six Flags in 2008, having fun with face paint and making silly faces.
Above: Jesse (L) and bff (R) in 2008, not crafting messages to people they don't know yet.
Why Roxanne?

Designed to be... used briefly.

Dating apps and other tools are more addictive than slot machines. Roxanne measures success by how few tries it takes before you copy and switch to your other app to send. Less time on all apps - including ours - means more time actually living your life.

  • 10 seconds vs. 10 minutes drafting
  • Same quality you'd write, but faster
  • Works with any screenshot
  • Message options designed for grown-ups
  • Privacy-first: no account needed
  • More time for dates, less with your phone
App differentiator

What our beta testers say

They're already saving time and getting better results.

"My matches are responding to my openers a lot more and I'm spending a ton less time writing them. Didn't even edit the last few from Roxanne."

Mike, 34

Mike, 34

Marketing Manager

"I was using ChatGPT to help me reply faster, but all the re-prompting cancelled out the benefits. This delivered messages that I'd actually send on the first or second try."

David, 41

David, 41

Engineer

"Roxanne helps me keep conversations going so I reply to more messages even when I'm busy."

Lisa, 50

Lisa, 50

Nurse Practitioner

Ready for dating to be about dates again?

Be the first to know when Roxanne launches and turn the exhaustion into excitement.

Early access users will receive steep discounts and zero spam.